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3 Mistakes Survivor Parents Are Making Regarding Abuse Prevention

 

 

There are 3 things you might be doing that are actually putting your child at greater risk for abuse, or for them not reporting the abuse!

Here's the other thing you need to know and understand.

Abusers may not be who you think. You may not want to look at those closest to you. Even those living in your own home. I say that at great risk of lashback- but I'm saying the truth.

So the question is: Why not empower your kids? Why not teach them some of the MOST IMPORTANT life skills that will protect them throughout their lives?

Learning about these 3 mistakes you might be making, will give you the information you need to prevent abuse or stop abuse if it's happening.

Access the FREE Safety Network Guide at www.consentparenting.com/safetynetwork

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WHAT TO DO IF YOUR CHILD DISCLOSES ABUSE

 

If a child discloses abuse, do you know what to do? This is critically important information that all adults, whether you have kids or not.

Download the FREE Safety Network Step-by-Step Guide in English go to: 
http://www.consentparenting.com/safetynetwork

Descarga GRATIS El Kit de Red De Seguridad completo: 
https://www.consentparenting.com/offers/tdoLZK8W/checkout

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Prevent Your Child From Being Trafficked During COVID-19 Quarantine

 

 

Teaching your kids these life-saving skills is so important during this uncertain time.

Online safety is great and necessary, but even more important is teaching kids about online grooming and how it could be dangerous.

In this video, I break down how online grooming can lead to child trafficking.

I talk about what parents need to teach beyond the basics of online safety.

What some of the red flags of grooming are.

And how to talk to kids about it so that they don't fall prey.

If you have questions or want to know more, connect with me. You can always find me at [email protected]

You can also learn more about the links I mention here:

GET THE SAFETY NETWORK GUIDE + POSTER:

https://www.consentparenting.com/safetynetwork

 

WATCH THE VIDEO ON WHAT TO DO IF A PREDATOR TRIED TO CONTACT YOUR CHILD: https://www.consentparenting.com/blog/the-first-step-to-do-if-a-predator-contacts-your-child

 

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Wake Up With Marci Interview #ChildAbusePreventionMonth

This week I was interviewed by Wake Up with Marci to talk about the fact that a lot of parents are seeking alternative forms of daycare, which includes having friends and family babysit.

What no one is really talking about, is how this can be a vulnerable time for children to face higher rates of abuse due to the issues parents are facing currently.

I know it seems like a hard subject, but we must educate ourselves.

In this interview, you will learn what grooming is.
What are signs to look for from the perpetrator?
What are the signs we can look for in our children?
And how to empower our kids to know their body is not to be touched without permission, that there are boundaries and who they can go to if ever needed.
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April is #childabusepreventionmonth and #sexualassaultawarenessmonth please help share this information with others so we can all keep our kids and young people safe!

April is Child Abuse Prevention month. With the COVID-19 pandemic, a lot of parents ...

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The first step to take if a predator contacts your child

 

 

Do you know what the first step is to do if a predator contacts your child online? You might be surprised by the answer!

Most parents respond very abruptly and miss out on the opportunity to track the offender (by law enforcement) and prevent this from happening to others.

But also, this will give your child the model for how to ask for help if they ever come across something like this in the future.

There are so many reasons it's important to know what to do! In this video I tell you how!

Protect your family by joining the Empowered Family Membership™ and take action. You can do so at https://aboutconsent.com/EMPOWERED-FAMILY-MEMBERSHIP

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COVID + ABUSE PREVENTION on CTV NEWS

 

 

Thank you for the great report Lyds Maria and CTV News and CTV Northern Ontario for spotlighting this important message for parents.
 
I was interviewed by Lydia Chubak from CTV Northern Ontario news about the 3 things parents should be thinking about and taking action on during this quarantine for kids of different ages in terms of abuse prevention.⁠

# 1- Kids who are living with or staying with a child sexual predator parent or another family member, should be getting abuse prevention education (from at least one parent) on what to do at this time (knowing how and who to report to- ei: the other parent, hotline, safety network, etc.) knowing their rights, and body safety, etc.⁠

# 2- Parents who have to work during this time outside of the home (everyone from doctors to grocery store cashiers) and are having to put their kids in the care of family, friends, babysitters, etc., also need to give their kids abuse prevention education (a sort of sensitive crash course), or at
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If your kids are TIKTOK USERS

 
If your kids are TIKTOK USERS or are thinking about allowing them to use TIKTOK, here's what you need to know to keep them safe.
 
Here is the link to register for the FIRESIDE CHAT free class on Online Safety Starter Talks for Kids Ages 3-13+ https://zoom.us/webinar/register/
 
Learn more about TikTok at Common Sense Media on their website
 
 
 
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ONLINE SAFETY (for kids of ALL ages) DURING THIS QUARANTINE PERIOD

 

TIPS for what to do to keep kids SAFE ONLINE during this high usage time to prevent predators from accessing your kids.

1:26 This is the link for Bark that I mentioned in the video: http://www.bark.us for helping you monitor your child's online usage.

2:19 You can listen to my podcast episode with Titania Jordan, the CMO of Bark at this link: https://aboutconsent.com/episode/ep-16-online-abuse-what-parents-need-to-know/

11:56 Check out other resources like CyberWise that have great classes (as well as free resources right now) at https://www.cyberwise.org/

 

 

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If you're a parent working outside of the home!

 

IF YOU'RE A PARENT WORKING OUTSIDE OF YOUR HOME, THIS VIDEO IS FOR YOU!

Here are the things you can teach your kids if they are under the care of a step-parent, family, friends, babysitters, basically anyone other than yourself.

1- Explain to them what body autonomy and boundaries are.

2- Talk about private parts and how those areas are only for them to touch/see.

3- Talk about the difference between secrets and the difference between secrets and surprises.

4- Create a safety network and let your child know what to do if they are in an unsafe situation or experience unsafe touch.

5- Use things like safety words and teach them that they can ALWAYS tell you anything and that it doesn't matter when something happened, they can still always tell you!

6- Use communication tools (like CONSENTletters™) to let your child's caretakers know that you are actively teaching your kids about body safety.

Check out below for more info on each of these steps!

Sending you love and strength.

 

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The #1 Thing To Do When Putting A Child In A New Childcare Situation

 

Here is the link for the FREE PDF download for the Top Recommended Books For Your Abuse Prevention Library: https://aboutconsent.lpages.co/abuse-prevention-library-pdf

 

Here is the How To Create A Safety Network video: https://www.consentparenting.com/blog/how-to-create-a-safety-network-for-your-kids-and-why-it-s-so-important 

 

Here is the CONSENTletters™ templates mini-course discounted link: https://www.consentparenting.com/offers/Lc3932Nx/checkout?coupon_code=EMPOWER&fbclid=IwAR3R7yonwBf-ZFoXd_ORTbJHzWHAe-vj3VeQgyuBWzlhLtSjUJCEegKqsTQ

 

If you are experiencing school/daycare interruptions and are getting creative with childcare so you can continue to work, please note that this is one of THE MOST CRITICAL TIMES to also empower your kids.

Unfortunately, these changes in childcare can put kids at greater risk. BUT you don't have to panic. This is a time to educate and empower.

THIS WEEK ALL WEEK I'll be coming on LIVE to give you specific strategies to empower your child to prev
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